Uplevelling confidence
Confidence is in the mind and in the body. When we’re secure in ourselves, our body language, our speech, our eyes reflect that.
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Honouring our feelings
I was often sad and unhappy as a child and adolescent. I didn’t feel loved and valued by my parents. I was criticised, heavily and regularly, for innocuous things.
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We won’t feel worthy by increasing our worth
When we doubt our worth, we normally look for ways to increase it. Whether it’s getting the best education, earning more money, upscaling our social status, or dating a more attractive partner, we create worth in order to feel worthy.
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How to help someone who’s in pain
When someone tells us that they hate their life, what we usually hear is an ask for help to make things better. We respond by offering support and advice, by reminding them of all the good things in their life, or by trying to put their problems in perspective.
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Not wanting to offend is offensive
It’s taking decisions for somebody else.
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Great leadership
Great leaders are not those who haven’t failed, but those who’ve tried even when they were petrified by failure.
What I’ve learned from failure
I have failed in many things. In my relationship with myself, in other relationships and friendships, in starting businesses, launching products, making the money I want to make, putting ideas into action.
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What keeps us stuck?
There are different ways in which we avoid taking action towards the things we want to achieve. Sometimes we get stuck in analysis paralysis. Sometimes we engage in busyness, or activities which are not high priority. Sometimes we got back to the drawing boards and think we’re completely off the mark. Or we let our
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Simplicity is a superpower
We often say that something is simple but powerful. And in many ways this is a misnomer. Things are often powerful because they are simple.
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You’re ready when you aren’t
Ready is nebulous. It’s a sliding scale. There’s no upper limit to readiness, and there’s no lower limit either.
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